"I knew about it, but I didn't know where it was," says Gwen. "When we got there, I thought, 'This is where I wanted to go!'?" They spent the whole day in the park, eating ice cream and trying out all the rides. It was the kind of serendipity that only happens in movies. Or, as it turns out, in Paris.
But with knowing only a handful of French phrases between them, city living wasn't always easy. "On the first day, I went to the grocery store," says Gwen. "And I came back after an hour and a half in tears." Most of that time was spent trying to figure out how to get a shopping cart, which required a euro deposit. It's given Gwen, who grew up in San Antonio and was, according to her husband, an "Air Force brat," a new perspective on being a foreigner - and an American. "We've been talking about sending our kids somewhere to learn a second language when we get back," she says. "I want that for them, because if you wait too long, you visit another country and realize, 'I'm the idiot American who speaks only one language.'?"
At the end of the evening, Chris and Gwen return to their apartment, and the kids race for the old, creaky elevator - which they call the lift - and ride it up to the second floor. "This is another game for them," says Chris. The elevator lumbers to the next level, as Gwen and Chris saunter up the winding staircase, beating their kids to the front door. Chris opens the elevator, and Joshua and Taylor tumble out, giggling.
"Everyone's like, 'I can't believe you're not taking a nanny to Paris,'?" Chris says later over a glass of wine. "Well, first of all, we don't have a nanny. We have this really crazy concept of raising our own kids. Second of all, it's been challenging, but it's been amazing." Neither Chris nor Gwen traveled much as kids. But their children have already seen more than Chris had in his first three decades - not the least of which is living in Paris.
"To watch them running around the Trocadéro playing tag in front of the Eiffel Tower …" Chris says, shaking his head. "It may not make a difference to them, but, as a dad, it makes a big difference to me. Who knows what they'll remember of this? But I'll always remember eating a chocolate crepe on the steps of the Eiffel Tower with my son and daughter."